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Scientists have uncovered a "secret" how to make a wish

This technique is called "Visualization desire.
"Think positively - and everything in your life will be positive!"

A year ago we wrote about the documentary The Secret , which produced the effect of a bomb in the minds of people around the world. They commented that thought is material and all our desires fulfilled, if properly think about them. One need only mentally "keep a picture in front of what you want. And do not get hung up on what you do not want. And everything will be on your way. The filmmakers have released the book version, which became a bestseller. But there was one drawback: all the cones fell on some mysterious universe or God. Sometimes scientists have speculated as exorcists: "Think positively - and everything in your life will be positive!" And why is that? Finally, the authors tried to understand what makes wishes come true. And gone in such scientific jungle that is as much removed four films. Describes the most useful findings.

We almost did not see

The movie begins with the question: "What is reality?" The question has arisen among scholars on purpose. They found that every second the human brain receives 400 trillion bits of information from the world. Can you imagine what a figure! But our consciousness reaches only about two thousand bits. Feel the difference!

- We live in a world where everything we see is only the tip of the iceberg - says white-haired scientist. He assures us that our brain stores all the information we collect. But we are aware of only a small part. The rest is stored as it recorded on video until until it is required. So sometimes something comes to us late. That is, our brain actually knows the truth about everything. But his mind filters it according to our attitudes and habits.

- We ourselves choose to limit yourself! - Insists scientist. - There is a story about the ships of Columbus. When the armada of Columbus approached the Caribbean, none of the natives was not able to see them, because they have never seen the ships, they have not had this experience. And they simply did not notice. Shaman noticed ripples on the surface of the ocean and began to think, what causes it. He began each day to peer into the distance and once he saw them. And then told everyone that there ships. And they saw the rest.

In general, everyone sees only what he knows about and that he wanted to see. So we create each his world view. In quantum physics this is called a tunnel reality. Everyone he his - someone is wider someone already. And so, when you're with someone arguing, you just tell others about the rules of life in its tunnel. And the other is a tonnelchik. And, if you have a very different, you will be hard to find a common language.

And in psychology was an experiment. If a person listens much and something wants to hear, then hear a 50% increase sounds and information than if it were not listening, and just sat there and did not parilsya.
To be truly happy, we must first cultivate within themselves a feeling of happiness!

PRACTICAL USE

1. If you're worried about any issue, be sure: somewhere deep in you know the correct answer. Even Freud noticed and came up with "nadsoznatelnoe. In general, you need to calm down, close your eyes and briefly and clearly state your question yourself. And then he would let go of the situation, switch to something else. As Scarlett O'Hara said: "I'll think about it tomorrow!" And the answer will come.

2. If you are in a difficult situation and do not know what decision to take, use the device of "Expanding the limits of perception of reality."

By itself this situation dry - just the facts, as in the news.

Write in the same situation as themselves in black paint - that it's so awful.

And now the same - but with the eyes of an optimist. What is it good, some pluses.

Includes the creative streak: as though about this story artist, director, or a poet. You can even draw something yourself, or write a few lines.

In conclusion - the results. What would you say to the man in your position, whether you're a wise old man on the spot.

Change the world

There is a quantum physics major problem - the problem of the observer. At the physics of its demonstrated freshmen and introduce them to a screeching halt. I confess I too was dumbfounded.

So, in a laboratory study photons in an effort to understand what it is: solid particles or waves? If they are solid, then they are subject to the laws of physics of solids. If the wave, then - the laws of waves. The first experiment scientist who believes that the solid particles. And he sees: the instruments record that the photons behave as solid particles. Second those experiments conducted by scientists, convinced that this wave. And - lo! - Photons behave like waves.

This is as if you typed in a bath of water, knowing that it is water. And your neighbor would go into the same bathroom, deciding to see there balls, and actually saw a tennis ball. And on your camera would be withdrawn water, and on his cell - balls. And who to believe?

These photons if read information from the brain of the observer and adapt the presentation of them. And we and the world around us is made up of photons, electrons, and so on! So, our thoughts, we change the reality and create his own reality. And each is own. And those who believe that the world is unjust and cruel, living in that world. And those who believe that life is given for joy, bathed in it.

Start the reactor happiness

Intuitively, this demonstrated a Japanese scientist Massaro Yamoto (about his experiments with water, we have already mentioned). He was sticking to the bottles of water are different words and photographed under a microscope the water before and after a day. Water changes its structure. The most beautiful structure was the water with the word "happiness". In second place - "love". But our body by 90 percent of the water!

In the film the benefit of this discovery showed a woman who is experiencing difficult divorce. In the bathroom she looks at herself in the mirror and says that he hates himself. And to us it appears as a distorted reflection of the terrible. Meanwhile, the camera shows what happens in the brain: the hypothalamus begins to produce a huge number of suicidal for the body hormones. Then the woman, recalling the opening Yamoto, pours water into the tub, throwing back the pink hearts, lies and pencil drawing on the skin of hearts. At that time, her brain begins to produce very useful hormones joy.

However, zavalivatsya in a bath with hearts optional. Imagine that you have in the chest - a powerful reactor for energy production happiness. Try to mentally run it and "irradiate" all around these light waves. The idea of material - you will see how to transform the world. The paradox: if you radiate energy of happiness, the people around her tend to increase. You begin to take more, but pleasant surprises are becoming the norm. If you radiate energy misfortunes and disappointments in life, then everything will strive to add your sorrows.

PRACTICAL USE

If you have to interview for a job or an important conversation with his superiors, tune in to a happy wave. Approaches the subject not from a position: I'm in a difficult situation, and that man m ust help me, but from the position: I am full of friendly attention and is ready to help this man find a good worker or a correct decision. Imagine that you turn on the charm, as the light in the room - and you will see how well established your conversation.

Illustrative example

District of Columbia Washington is considered the capital murders. Summer of 1993, scientists there was an experiment. Four thousand volunteers at the same time began thinking hard about that crime dropped by 25%. The police chief laughed that soon will be snow in the summer than they did it. But when the results came, the Police Department was co-founder of the event.

- Each of us affects what he sees and what he thinks. We can not pretend to be a victim of circumstances - said the scientist in the film. - The atoms around - it materialized media. And the information comes from our heads.

Everyone has their own half

When we wrote about the first "Secrets", we talked about that people unconsciously perceive each other's thoughts. And if you ever think that your husband is bad, he seemed to hear it. In the continuation of the scientists explain how this happens. Let's not bother with stories about how science has opened the principle of universal unity, proving that at the subnuclear level, we all - one!

But there are people who initially special bond. At first it was opened between the electrons. They took two electrons from one field, the so-called kinship. And then carried to several laboratories. They began to work on one. For the second only watched. But he is at this point not only to respond, but in exactly the same as the reaction of which impacted! While this relationship remains unexplained, but it is.

Some people also feel when something happens to their loved ones. And sometimes strangers can understand each other perfectly, and seemed a hundred years been familiar. Apparently, a romantic myth about the second half is completely scientific basis.

PRACTICAL USE

1. Separation - the best way to test the feelings. Separation helps put the emphasis. If this is indeed the second half, the shower did not lose the connection, and will become even stronger.

2. Imagine you're interested in man as a color hologram. And find out what the colors in his image dominate. Or, in what colors did you dream about. Red - love. Black - in pain. Brown - depression. Yellow - happy life. Blue - weighs the situation. Green - you are his inspiration.

IMPORTANT

What is positive thinking?

Some understand it as an attempt not to see the bad, and see only good. But this is a dead end road. You have to see everything - and black and white - but to put the correct accents.

EXERCISES

Prize day

Feeling sad? Look around and let something mentally Award: "Best flower sill", "Phrase of the day", etc. It will help shift attention.

Award

Goes wrong job? Laziness or thoughts interfere. Say to yourself: "Now I'll try to do it for half an hour, and exactly half an hour I will reward myself." Chocolate, coffee, every detail can be awarded. But half an hour you see it forbids.

I have the right

Allow yourselves to the feelings that forbid. They go outside neuroses and depressions. Tell us internally: "I have the right to love, I have the right to be sad, I have the right to be bored ..." - and so run out of this emotion to the end and it will cease to interfere with life.

Two Steps to Happiness

Tactics: it is very important to important for you to articulate the action goal. What do you want to exit? For example, the husband again delayed, and you intend to arrange a beating. Ask yourself: Why do you do it? For a long time to quarrel, or that he had come home early? And if the latter, then how to act: to yell or something to draw? The same applies to the work: before talking or meeting not think about what you will say, but about what do you want to say it. And if you keep this goal in mind, the right words there.

Strategy: listen to yourself and understand what feeling you would like to get in the end. It is more important. This primitive example: you decide you want vanilla ice cream. We started there and were disappointed. But when you want to sensations, in front of you there is a decision that you yourself would not have thought. In our example, enough to want to enjoy something tasty. And you already is on the buffet, where you feed the dessert, of whose existence you had not suspected.

Tatiana FIRE - 18.06.2009

Comments: 56 Igor Ivanilov Posted by: Igor Ivanilov June 18, 2009, 09:43

Heart - a parable

On one sunny day, a handsome fellow standing in the square in the middle of the city and are proud to boast the most beautiful heart in the district. He was surrounded by a crowd of people who genuinely admired perfection of his heart. It was really perfect - no scratches, no scratches. And everyone in the crowd agreed that this is the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The guy was very proud and just beamed with happiness.

Suddenly, the crowd stepped forward and the old man said, turning to the guy: - Your heart is beautiful and comes close to mine. Then the whole crowd looked at the old man's heart. It was dented, all covered with scars, in some places pieces of the heart had been removed and their places were added others, which do not fit, some of the edge of the heart had been torn. Moreover, in some places in the heart of the old man obviously did not have enough pieces. The crowd stared at the old man - how could he say that his heart is more beautiful?

The guy looked at the heart of the old man and laughed: - You may be kidding, old man! Compare your heart with mine! My best! And yours! Thy - hodgepodge of scars and tears! - Yes, - said the old man, - your heart looks perfect, but I would never have agreed to share our hearts. Look! Every scar on my heart - a man whom I gave my love - I tore a piece of my heart and gave this man. And he is often in return gave me your love - a piece of the heart, which filled the empty spaces in my. But because different pieces of hearts just do not fit together, so my heart is torn edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love that we shared. Sometimes I gave the pieces of my heart, but other people did not return me to my - so you can see the empty hole in my heart - when you give your love is not always a guarantee of reciprocity. And though these holes bring the pain, they remind me of love, which I shared, and I hope that one day these pieces of heart to me back. Now you see, that means the true beauty?

The crowd was hushed. The young man stood silently oshelomlennyy.Iz his eyes flowed with tears. He went to the old man took my heart and tore off a piece of it. With trembling hands, he offered some of his old man's heart. The old man took his gift and put in his heart. Then he tore off a piece in response to his battered heart and put it in the hole formed in the heart of a young man. A lump came up, but not perfect, and some edges were, and some were torn. The young man looked at his heart, is not ideal, but more beautiful than it was before, yet love the old man did not touch it.

And they walked arm in arm along the road. On this wonderful day, share with others a piece of my heart, my love - send all your friends and relatives of this page !

Comments: 23 Igor Ivanilov Posted by: Igor Ivanilov June 16, 2009, 19:51

Select - a parable

I've already died?-Man asked.
- Yeah, - nodded demiurge Shambambukli, not looking up from the study of the large impressive book. - Died. Absolutely.
The man hesitantly shifted from foot to foot.
- Now what?
Demiurge gave him a quick glance and then buried in a book.
- Now you go there - he was not looking pointed at inconspicuous door. - Or there - his finger turned towards the other, exactly the same door.
- What is it? - Asked about the man.
- Hell, - said Shambambukli. - Or paradise. For circumstances.
The man stood in indecision, looking from one door to another.
- Ah ... and me in what?
- And you did not know? - Demiurge slightly raised eyebrow.
- Well-y, - a man hesitated. - Never mind. Where there I put on my deeds ...
- Hmm! - Shambambukli laid the book with his finger and finally looked directly at the person. - The acts mean?
- Well, yes, but what else?
- Well, well, - Shambambukli opened the book near the top and began to read aloud. - Here it is written that the age of twelve you sent the old lady across the street. It is?
- It was - nodded people.
- This is a good deed or bad?
- Good, of course!
- Let's see ... - Shambambukli turned the page - five minutes old lady moved to another street tramway. If you had not helped her, they would have missed, and the old woman would have lived another ten years. Well, how?
The man blinked consternation.
- Or - Shambambukli opened the book elsewhere. - At the age of twenty-three years you are with a group of comrades took part in the brutal beating of another group of friends.
- They first climbed! - Raised his head man.
- I have written here differently - said the demiurge. - And, incidentally, the state of alcoholic intoxication is not a mitigating factor. In general, you're not for nothing that he broke seventeen teen two fingers and nose. Is that good or bad?
The man said nothing.
- After this guy could not play the violin, and in fact put more hope. You've ruined his career.
- I did not mean - mumbled people.
- Naturally, - nodded Shambambukli. - By the way, the boy from childhood hated this violin. After your meeting, he decided to take up boxing, to be able to stand up for themselves, and eventually became a world champion. Continue?
Shambambukli turned over a few pages.
- Rape - good or bad?
- But I ...
- This baby has a wonderful doctor and has saved hundreds of lives. Good or bad?
- Well, probably ...
- Among those lives and was owned maniac. Bad or good?
- But ...
- A maniac soon will kill a pregnant woman who could become the mother of the great scientist! Okay? Bad?
- But ...
- This great scientist if he had been given to be born, had to invent a bomb that could burn half of the continent. Bad? Or good?
- But I could not know all this! - Shouted the man.
- Of course, - has agreed to a demiurge. - Or, for example, on page 246 - you stepped on a butterfly!
- And from this, what happened?
Demiurge silently opened the book to the man and pointed. The man read, and the hair stirred on his head.
- What a nightmare - he whispered.
- But if you do not crush it, it would happen here - Shambambukli pointing to another paragraph. The man looked up and swallowed.
- Issued ... I saved the world?
- Yes, four times - confirmed Shambambukli. - Crushing a butterfly, pushing an old man, betraying a friend and stealing his grandmother purse. Each time the world was on the brink of catastrophe, but thy diligence scrambled.
- Ah ... - A man for a moment hesitated. - And on the brink of the catastrophe ... he, too, am I?
- You, you, no doubt. Twice. When fed a stray kitten and rescued when drowning.
The man gave way under his knees and he sat on the floor.
- I do not understand - he sobbed. - All that I have done in my life ... What I'm proud and ashamed of what ... the other way around, inside out, all is not what it seems!
- That's why it would be quite wrong to judge you for yours - didactically said Shambambukli. - Is that the intention ... but here you judge himself.
He slammed the book and put it in the closet, among other such books.
- In general, when you decide to, where you head for the selected door. And I still have cases of throat.
The man lifted his tear-stained face.
- But I do not know for some of them hell, but for a paradise.
- And it depends on what you choose - Shambambukli said.

Comments: 25 Igor Ivanilov Posted by: Igor Ivanilov June 19, 2009, 09:54

Love Will Save the World!

That is the secret!

A woman came out of her house and saw three old men with long
white beards. She did not know them, but invited to the house:
"Perhaps you're hungry. Please come and have breakfast."

We can not enter, if your husband is not home, "they replied.
In the evening, when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.
"Go tell them that I am home and invite them!" Said the husband.
The woman went out and invited them.
"We can not enter the house all together," they replied.
"Why?" she asked.

One of the elders explained:

," сказал он указывая на одного из воих друзей, и сказал указывая на другого, "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said, pointing to another

, "He is Success,

" and I am Love. "


Then he added, "Talk to your husband, one of us you want
see most in my house. "
The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was
overjoyed. "How nice!" He said.

"If you really need to make a choice, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and
fill our house! "

The wife replied, "My dear, why do not we invite Success?"

Their daughter suggested "Why would we better to invite Love?
At that time in our home filled with love! "

"Let's agree to our daughter," said the husband to his wife.
"Go out and invite Love to be our guest.

"The woman went out and asked the three old men:" Who among you
LOVE? Come in and be our guest. "

The old man by the name of LOVE went into the house, and two others followed him.
Surprised, the woman asked Wealth and Success:


"I only invited Love, why did you go too?"

Elders responded: "If you had invited Wealth or Success,
the other two of us would've stayed out, but you invited Love, and
We always go with him.


"Where there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!"

I wish everyone on Earth:

- If you have pain, I wish you peace and mercy.


- If you have doubts, I want to trust.


- If you have fatigue and exhaustion, I wish understanding, patience and
renewed strength.


- If you have fear, I wish you love and courage

.
- If you have a desire to change your life, begin to learn.


If you believe in love and serious about her
then it is serious about the U.S.!

Everyone must help other people become happy, wealthy, healthy.

If you succeeded, learning something new, help another walk this path with the least losses and higher efficiency.

We women are obliged to give all what is missing in our lives: self-confidence. peace, kindness, love and just human attention.

I try to do etopo as their strength and capabilities.

Sincerely, Ludmila Korobitsino

Comments: 34 Ludmila Korobitsino (Kompaneyschikova) Posted by: Ludmila Korobitsino ... May 31 2009, 11:35

LESSON BUTTERFLIES

"Once in a cocoon there was a small crack, accidentally go past the long hours stood and watched through the small slit trying to break a butterfly. It took a long time, the butterfly seems to leave its efforts, but the gap remains stubbornly small .

It seemed that the butterfly has done all it could, and that anything else she had no more strength.

Then the man decided to help the butterfly: he took a penknife and cut the cocoon. Butterfly came out at once. But her body was weak and frail, her wings were undeveloped and barely moved.

The man continued to watch, thinking that any moment the wings of a butterfly butcher and get stronger and she will be able to fly Nothing happened! The balance of the butterfly life dragged on the ground his weak body, its not volant.

She was never able to fly. And all because a man, wanting to help her, did not realize that the effort to go through a narrow slit the cocoon, the butterfly must that fluid from the body moved to the wings and that the butterfly could fly. Life makes a butterfly hard to leave the shell so that it can grow and develop.

Sometimes it is necessary to force us in life. If we were allowed to live, never meeting with difficulties, we would have been deprived. We could not be so strong as now. We could never fly.

I asked for strength ... but life gave me difficulties to make me strong.

I asked for wisdom ... and life gave me problems to solve. I asked for riches ... and life gave me a brain and muscles, so that I could work.

I asked to fly ... but life has given me the obstacles that I overcame them.

I asked for love ... but life has given me people who I could help with their problems.

I asked for blessings ... but life has given me opportunities.

I got nothing from that, as requested ...

But I got everything that I need. "

Comments: 11 Jeanne Pyatirikova Posted by: Jeanne Pyatirikova September 9, 2008, 16:39

Aphorisms

Dying is not srashno, not afraid to live.

Life is something that people are trying to save the most, but least of all cherish.

The only obstacle to implement our plans for tomorrow may be our doubts of today (Franklin Roosevelt)

Our doubts are our predateli.Oni cause us to lose what we could possibly win if LN is not afraid to try.

The work does not make you rich! Rich are getting in their spare time at home! (R. Kiyosaki)

Where weaker friendship, there is growing ceremonious politeness. (William Shakespeare)

Seneca said: "condemn the deeds of men judged their judges'

To love means to wish for another what is considered a blessing, and wish for this not for ourselves, but for the sake of the loved one, and possibly to staratsya Steph to give him the benefit of (Aristotle)

Do something for that to have something that you love, otherwise we will have to love what you have.

The law guarantees the lunch break, but does not guarantee lunch.

There is nothing more permanent than a temporary lack of money.

Let the thought contained in the books will be your main asset, and the thoughts that arise in yourself, the interest on it.

People higher morality do not consider themselves morally, so they have a higher morality (Lao Tzu)

Never put off till tomorrow what you already postponed yesterday for today.

We gives no joy that surrounds us, and our relationship to the ...

He who conquers others is strong! But he who conquers himself is mighty!

The difficulty is one of God's methods to make a person stronger.

The pessimist sees difficulty in every vozmozhnosti.Optimist in every difficulty to see the possibility.

The man has no idea how much he was close to victory a minute before totgo as abandoned.

In this world you're only human, but for someone you have the whole world!

We can not accept a man free, without acknowledging his time in charge.

To utspravlyat world, you need to manage themselves.

Nowadays people know the whole price, but have no idea about the true value (Oscar Wilde)

A good leader, one that does not require podchenennyh that are unable to do himself.

There is nothing sillier than a desire to be smarter than everyone else.

Character is like a tree, and reputatsiya_ his shadow. We take care of the shadows, but at the Delhi to think about the tree.

If you do not have enough time, so you do not know how to manage it.

If you want to see a rainbow, be prepared to get under the rain.

Happiness is a matter for properly spaced prioretetov.

If you spit in the back, then you're ahead! (Confucius)

It is difficult to know himself-much easier to give advice to others.

Happiness and the fire will not diminish, if they podelishsya with others.

Comments: 28 Vyacheslav Radchenkov Posted by: Vyacheslav Radchenkov September 25, 2009, 14:36

3 free online class "Breath of Peace"

Spring Forest Qigong - breathing world
Do not be confused by the seeming simplicity of this exercise. How to Master Lin says, "the most effective means very simple. This is an ingenious exercise is extremely effective for removal of organs in the body, especially in the lungs.
Relax in the correct position: spread your legs slightly wider than shoulder width, slightly bend your knees and look forward. Smile and relax. Pull the chin slightly to straighten the spine. Lower the shoulders and gently pull your elbows. Loose my hand and pull the fingers.
Breathe deeply: slowly make three deep calm breaths through the nose. Imagine that your whole body involved in breathing. In my mind Imagine how the energy is in you and is going in the abdomen. When exhale, imagine how all the pain and sickness become smoke and discarded every cell of the body outward.
For myself, repeat, closing his eyes: "I am in the universe. Universe in my body. I and the universe combined. Try to feel the calm of the world, its silence and stillness.
Move your hands: when inhale, slowly move your hands at a distance from each other in hand. When exhale slowly to mix with hands (only to see that the hands did not touch each other). When dilute the hands, imagine the energy expanded in the space between his hands. When the hands to mix, try to feel the energy between them shrinks.
Do this exercise for 5-6 minutes. When done, take three slow, quiet deep breaths and let yourself relax for a minute or two.

Comments: 31 Igor Ivanilov Posted by: Igor Ivanilov March 18, 2009, 14:20

lesson

Stro ng woman lesson
Teach one God ...

He told her: "Dame, that you ask
Think and say
Sign it to me in order
in its thin notebook
What do you want from men. "

How long a woman does not think
wrote a couple of lines:
I want him to be clever
so much in life could.

That I could be proud of
the fact that I am his wife,
to all his wishes
When I answered. "

God with a grin: "And just .."
Instantly find her fiance,
But the condition set,
Hurt her a bit:
"If you can stay
In the role of the principal, even with him,
I will arrange your wedding,
Will he ever thine! "

Strong women Reply
He was categorical: "No!
Do not want to again be the main,
I do not want to lead!
Seeking a strong man,
To be near the weak ... "

Comments: 3 Tamara Nekrasov Posted by: Tamara Nekrasov March 22, 2009, 22:55

1 free online lesson forgiveness

Today I begin to practice free online training. This is the first practical exercise in a series of purification - forgiveness. It will certainly help those who are suffering from the filling of his grievance, anger and other negative charges. Suggest you also post in this blog exercises aimed at cleaning, for that would share its achievements in clearing themselves from the negative to others - for giving shall find.


I want to warn those who post their ads, links to other sites, spam, network, methods to earn, etc. - You get an automatic to blacklist the group and lose the ability to communicate with its members. Post your suggestions in the relevant blogs!

Practice Forgiveness


1. Sit down somewhere in a quiet place where nobody will disturb you.
2. Close your eyes and think of someone to whom you are angry, offended, or who hate all my heart.
3. A couple of times a deep breath and watch your feelings. Do nothing with them, just watch.
4. Now you must understand that the offensive action of a man no longer change. He stayed in the past, and absolutely does not affect him now. Feel the completion of action.
5. Understand that this person may never change. It is what he is. Take a few deep breaths and to accept the truth.
6. People are who they are and do what they do, because they themselves are unhappy, suffer hardship or pain. They may even do not realize it, but it is so. People hurt other just because they themselves wronged. Look at them through the prism of compassion for their own suffering. Imagine what they are like children who try to hurt others, fall upon them from his own pain. You feel compassion for them?
7. Sit quietly for a minute or two, feeling the increased energy that brought your heart and compassion.

NOTE. It's okay if you're still angry. The purpose of this exercise - to start getting rid of the pain in your heart, not just to forgive others. Continue this exercise until you feel at least a small shift. Your ability to forgive will grow as soon as you feel more compassion.

Good luck to you in the development and comprehension of themselves! Улыбается

Questions and discussion in the comments.

Comments: 77 Igor Ivanilov Posted by: Igor Ivanilov March 1, 2009, 09:07

Think about it

My friend opened the drawer of his wife and took a package wrapped in tissue paper. It was not just a bag, and bag of clothes. He threw the bag and looked at the silk and lace. "It is I bought her when we were the first time in New York. It was 8 or 9 years ago. She had never worn. She wanted to keep it for a special occasion. And now, I think the time has come." He went to bed and put the clothes to other things, taken from the funeral home. His wife died.

When he turned to me, he said:

"Nothing was saved for special about each day that you live, this is a special case."

I still think over these words ...

They changed my life

Today I read more and less navozhu orders. I settle on the veranda and enjoy the view without paying attention to the weeds in the garden. I spend more time with his family and friends, and less at work. I realized that life - a collection of experience, which is valued ... And now nothing more I retain: Every day I take my crystal glasses. If necessary, I put on my new jacket to go to the supermarket. Also, my favorite perfume I use when I want, rather than to inflict them only on holidays. Suggestions such as: "Once" or "One day, driven out of my vocabulary. If it's worth it, I want to see, hear and do things now and here.

I'm not sure that would make my friend's wife, if she knew that she would not be tomorrow (tomorrow is often so easily perceived). I think she would have called family and close friends. Maybe she would have called a couple of old friends, to make it up or apologize for past squabbles. I really like the idea that she would go to a Chinese Restaurant (her favorite food). This is a small imperfect things that would prevent me, if I knew that my days are numbered. I would be annoyed if I did not see friends with whom I am one of those days had to be contacted. Раздражало бы, если бы я не написал письма, которые хотел написать в один из этих дней. Раздражало, если бы я не так часто говорил своим близким, как я их сильно люблю.

Сейчас я не упускаю, не откладываю, не сохраняю ничего того, что могло бы принести в нашу жизнь радость и улыбку. Я говорю себе, что день, каждый, как и каждая минута - что-то особенное.

Когда ты получишь это сообщение, передай его тому, кому ты желаешь добра, и кто дорог тебе. Если ты слишком занят, чтобы потратить пару минут, чтобы передать ее другим, и ты скажешь: в один из дней... завтра... может, ты и не сделаешь этого совсем...

Comments: 22 Igor Ivanilov Posted by: Igor Ivanilov 1 мар, 11:17
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